A Major Relationship Breakthrough

“Are You Creating or Destroying Your Relationships?”


The Relationship Competence Internship Program

By Ben Kugler


Note: an E.Learning Publication (self taught with Coaching) on the above Private Workshop will be available on or about the last week of April 2020.

After 19 years, 3,000 + hours of study & research, interning at a Middle School, delivering 160+ workshops to thousands of people, writing 5 books on the subject; the last one entitled “The Quest for Compatibility & the Demise of Divorce – available at Amazon.com  -- A Major Relationship Breakthrough has occurred.  This is beyond “just making a difference” in a relationship and or beyond therapy.  I sincerely believe that the following 4 - Step process is THE ANSWER to achieving and ensuring long-term Successful Relationships.




Where and how the Private Workshops are delivered:

The delivery of the Workshop can be done at our offices at the Bank of America Building 600 Cleveland St. in downtown Clearwater, Florida or via Zoom.com anywhere that has WiFi.


Step One begins with three proprietary tests:

a. The Ideal Relationship Compatibility Test helps you to determine your “Ideal Scene”; what you least and most want in 12 different categories of life; sex, politics, finance, etc.

At your option, your test results can then Match Up with another’s Ideal Scene to compare the degree of Compatibility you share.

b.The Marital Commitment Test - Note: Commitment is not just a word it’s an ACTION. This test is a conglomerate of committed actions. It’s the fuel that powers all relationships.

c. The Communication Skill Set Test - is a test that broadly measures one’s knowledge of Communication. The higher it is the greater the likelihood one can improve Compatibility and Commitment. Note: Competent use of this knowledge is the key.  (Competent is defined as; expert & skillful with no major errors.)


Collectively, these tests take 75 to 120 minutes to complete. They definitively tell you 1) what you want and don’t want in a relationship and 2) what the likelihood is of improving your Compatibility with another when you increase Commitment & Communication.


Step Two is a 30- to 45-minute evaluation of all three tests by a highly trained Relationship Coach with 15 to 20 years of Relationship expertise.


Step Three is a  2 to 3 day Private workshop entitled Are You Creating or Destroying Your Relationships?”  This workshop focuses on the 18 key tools that Create or Destroy any relationship.

(Knowing when and how to use these tools to Create or Destroy any Relationship is essential when desirous of ensuring a long-term Successful Relationship.)

An extra day of workshop training may need to be added to ensure that certain Relationship Tools (i.e. The Anatomy of Communication Part A & B) are fully duplicated.


Note: 6 hours of professional coaching comes with the singles package of the Private Workshop Delivery of Are You Creating or Destroying Your Relationships. And 10 hours of professional coaching comes with the couples package of this same workshop.

Some of the Coaching will be used during the Workshop, approximately half of that coaching will be available after the delivery of this workshop.


Step Four is a 30 + day Relationship Competence Internship Program that comes in two parts:

Part A) the use of our daily Relationship Competence Mobile App includes the instruct on how to use it and why it will be among your most valuable tools to attain Relationship Competence.

Part B) The weekly private Internship tele-conferences entail additional drilling and exercises and more advanced material on the 18 tools, along with an extensive question and answer period with an Expert Relationship coach who has over twenty year's experience.

Step Four is the “secret sauce” in helping you be a Relationship expert with no major errors. This is the step where it all comes together and stays together.

It is worth noting, that even if just one of the two in a relationship sign up to do the above 4-Step Create & Destroy Program, an Ideal Relationship can ultimately be attained.  Allow us the privilege of answering any and all of your questions.

~~ Our Motto ~~
Keep your Commitment UP,
Your Discipline IN, &
Keep Persevering,
You’ll Achieve Relationship Competence:
“Being Expert & Skillful with

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